How To Get Your Ex Husband Back

It can be a real challenge, and a very stressful time, when you realize that your marriage is falling apart right before your eyes.  You may wonder how it all got so out of control and how in the world the two of you can ever get back to the way you used to be. While it's true, that not every marriage can be saved and many marriages shouldn't be saved, things may not be as hopeless as you fear.  If both of you really want your relationship to work and are willing to work together, you can save a failing marriage.

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The one point that I can't stress enough is that if both of you aren't committed totally to salvaging your relationship there really isn't much chance of things working out.  We all tend to feel superior when it comes to relationship troubles and can easily identify our partners issues, but we aren't nearly as clear headed when it comes to facing our own.  Unless both spouses are able to admit their own issues and the problems that they bring to the marriage, as well as commit to making serious changes, there is simply nothing the other spouse can do.  One person cannot save a marriage.

Once the two of you have gotten to the point where you are on the same page, it's time to figure out what issues you need to concentrate on.  It's easy to get sidetracked with the stupid day to day arguments but these are only the symptom of the problem not the  actual issue.  You have to dig deeper to find out what is really going on and why you are reacting the way you are to your partner.

At this stage it might be helpful to find a good counselor that you both trust and feel comfortable with.  This is a high emotion situation and whenever you are in a high emotion situation it can be hard to think real clearly.  Having a counselor who can act as a guide and can point things out to you can be extremely helpful.

Once you've been able to identify the real problems in your marriage, you and your partner can work on finding ways to change the destructive behaviors.  Just don't get caught up in the trap of blaming your partner for everything that's been going on, face our own stuff as well.

Working on your marriage is most likely going to take time, remember, it took you time to get to this place, it will take time to work your way back.  Don't expect things to improve overnight. 

People have a tendency to make things harder than they really need to be.  Marriage doesn't have to be an ongoing battle of wills between you and your spouse.  Of course the two of you aren't going to agree on everything, but if both of you are mature enough to be able to talk about the problems, and your own issues, and make positive forward steps, than you might have a chance to save a failing marriage... yours!

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